[The highlight of this article] A female netizen posted a message on her face book "Do Mushroom Jiujiu Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law Discussion Area" complaining that her mother-in-law often went upstairs to check them, and would open the door without authorization into the room, and even sat at the end of the bed in the middle of the night, which made the original PO very collapse. The original PO lived with her husband, the child and the mother-in-law, but they lived on the third floor and the mother-in-law slept on the second floor. My mother-in-law's behavior made everyone say it was too irritating, and she suggested moving out or locking it, criticizing her mother-in-law for being sick and being scared to death. --by ChatGPT
In the Chinese world, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have always been difficult to solve. If you can meet a mother-in-law who loves you like a daughter, it will be really fragrant, and on the contrary, it will be like a baby in the ground. A female netizen posted a message complaining that her mother-in-law would go upstairs to check in every possible way, and she would open her room without authorization, and even sit at the end of the bed in the middle of the night, which made her very upset.
{9 999} The mother-in-law's discourse made her daughter-in-law collapse soon. The original PO posted a message on her face book "Dog Mushroom Jiujiu Mother-in-law Discussion Area" that they lived with their children and mother-in-law. They lived on the third floor and the mother-in-law slept on the second floor. However, the mother-in-law went to the third floor several times a day, and saw the end from the head. Moreover, they could not even lock the door. "When they married, there was a lock, and she would keep turning or knocking on the door, so we had no way to lock the door."The original PO also revealed a more awesome situation. She said that she had been sleeping halfway through the bed several times. When she got up and went to the bathroom, she would see her mother-in-law sitting at the end of their bed. She was often scared and even went to the child's room to watch the child sleep. Sometimes she would call the child up or pull him with her hands. Her husband complained many times, but her mother-in-law still did her own thing, which made the original PO "can't even listen to it."
The crowd read the video and said it was too harsh, "Are you sick? I must have been furious", "I'll be scared to death", "Move out + don't give the key should be the only solution", "Stop locking! Otherwise, don't you know that people are scared or scared? I don't know whether they are humans or ghosts after sleeping halfway through Sitting on your bed, "Is this sick! Who would be scared to death when I sit at the end of the bed?", "I am sick, if it were my mother, I would let her go out", "I'm so disgusting, so disgusting", "I treat her body with the same way, so you should sit at the end of her bed every night, and be careful", "I'll be restless when I hear the sound of the door."
1. Looking for a mother-in-law’s needs: The mother-in-law may be able to go upstairs and check them frequently from the perspective of care and care. If you can find out your mother-in-law's needs, meet them, or give appropriate responses, it may reduce her troubles and improve the quality of your original PO's life.
2. Communication: Communication is the first step in solving problems. The original PO can sit down with the mother-in-law and have a good discussion, so that the mother-in-law can understand what difficulties and inconveniences her behavior has caused to the original PO. At the same time, the original PO can also understand the mother-in-law’s ideas and needs, and find a solution to the problem.
3. Respect: Respect is very important when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are in harmony. The original PO can respect the mother-in-law's life habits and needs, and at the same time requires the other party to respect their private space and privacy rights. If mutual respect can be maintained, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be more harmonious.
4. Resolve conflicts: If the mother-in-law's behavior causes great difficulties and inconvenience to the original PO, you can ask for help from a third party, such as a family doctor or consultant. They can give suggestions and support, help resolve conflicts, and make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law more harmonious.
In short, the problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law requires the joint efforts of both parties to find solutions to the problem. Based on respecting each other, communicating and inclusiveness, I believe that the problem can be solved!