In the unknown journey of life, no one dares to say that he is "striking the sky and sailing with all his might" in this journey. Everyone hopes that he can pass everything safely in a comfortable circle and look forward to a safe and sound life, but it is often just a fantasy.
Among these many setbacks, I feel that it will be more comfortable to talk about it. But not everything can be told to outsiders, and no matter what the situation is, they should learn to be responsible for themselves.
Do not talk about your own pain
There are many troubles in life that always trouble us. However, many people do not know how to relieve these troubles. Over time, their hearts will become sick, but don’t just talk about your pain to everyone, because not everyone can understand their experiences.
In the world, there are not so many people who empathize with it. Although there are many similar experiences, it does not mean that others are the ones that can solve for you. Just tell everyone, it’s better to find a way to solve your own problems!
The bad words of not speaking friends behind them become friends is that they have a common sense of frequency and trust. No matter how worried or unhappy they are in their hearts, they cannot sell friends.
There are always friends and friends who will get together to "private parties". Usually, they will not talk about each other when everyone gets together, but will appear after the party. They often play a good and lively side in group life, but even if you are unhappy at heart, they will not particularly show your feelings.
Even in private, don't complain about your friends, because if you complain like this, he will secretly tell you, just prove that he may also say your bad words to others. In short, even if you have too many feelings of pain and look down on your friends, don't easily say "bad words". If you are really unhappy, find a time to discuss the real unhappiness. If the other party is a true friend, you don't have to worry about it, but if you speak frankly, remember the temperament you speak and don't hurt your temper.
Do not care about the contradictions in becoming a monk
Every family has a difficult subject, but the way to keep the family well is also a deep learning. In the family, it is not just the problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but more importantly, people who are closer to each other have more conditions that cannot be resolved.
In the family, there are always some people who don’t like each other, such as different life habits and different ways of using things. They often endure the other party first, and eventually become a slut. Often at this time, it is not only the two people involved, but the entire family atmosphere. Similar family problems may often be found in nearby neighborhoods, which is well known.
As the saying goes, the family is not allowed to go out of trouble, so if you can solve many things well, reconcile and discuss at home, you can solve them. Don’t be regarded as a joke after someone else’s tea.
Don't complain about God's unfairness
When things happen, many people will start to complain about the world, thinking that some people can have a good life and good treatment if they don't do anything. In fact, when friends and family members hear you, you will think that you are a person who loves to complain.
Of course, complaining sometimes is just to expel a while of emotion. This is a normal ejaculation channel, but it also doesn't make people feel that they are a person who loves to complain. It impresses people, and even feels that your emotional intelligence is low. In the end, you may even bother yourself.
